Stop Watching the News!
Some people are news junkies and even though I like to know what is going on in the world, if I am having a bad day or I am in pain the last thing I want to do is turn on the news and hear about all the murders and people acting crazy. Not only do I get upset with these idiots, I feel really bad for the victims, and I start to worry about things. So, if you are having a tough time at life right now, focus on yourself and not others.
Get Outside
Step outside and take a deep breath. Sure, temperatures might be rising and the air might be polluted, but Mother Nature's not going anywhere anytime soon. It always helps me to take a walk or sit outside under the shade of a large tree and watch the squirrels scavenge for snacks. The squirrels don't have a care in the world, other than finding a good snack and a mate. It reminds me of how simple life really is beneath all of our modern human clutter.
Spend Time with Friends and Family
Humans are social creatures. Even the most antisocial people would be miserable if they were truly alone in the world. Surrounding yourself by people you enjoy will bring smiles to everyone's faces and put a little extra joy in your hearts. If you can not spend time with friends or family, remember having pets have saved my mental state more than once.
Books. Or Wikipedia
If you feel helpless to better the world around you, you can at least do something to better yourself. Read books (or online articles on Wikipedia ) about topics that interest you. Maybe tackle a few of the classics, or brush up on some philosophy. The phrase "Knowledge is power!" might be used in jest, but it's really true.
Dream!
Dreaming about things you'd like to do is a great way to start making goals for yourself. Sure, there are always outside forces that might interfere, but it is up to you to at least give it a shot, right? If you want to own a house and not get mixed up in a mortgage mess like many others have, do your research and save every penny so you can accomplish that goal. If you hate your job, try going back to school to do something you'd really enjoy. Money might be tight, but that shouldn't stop you from giving your life direction.
These tips might not be for everybody, but if any of them are able to alleviate some weight off of your shoulders, then it's always worth it. We'll never get out of these messes if we're all weighed down by them! No matter what your situation, if you can keep your hopes up even through these difficult days, you can rest assured that there will be a brighter future ahead.

Rocha.John Rocha
i like curling up with my bears.
1***************
"I will marshal all the forces of darkness to hound you to an assisted suicide." - In the Loop
i love to dream
and if i cannot take it going out with kids...
if i had a lot of money - i would go for a trip - foreign country - dream = Disney World with
kids in Florida
and spend
2not to misunderstand - when i cannot take the four walls - i go out with the kids - is good to see nature
3thanks for sharing this,i hope it'll help me some while facing some unbearable though times at the moment.thanks i'll try those.
4I have stopped watching the news like I was a while ago. It stresses me out too much.
I feel better lately...I would like to keep it that way.
5Post A Comment
To post comments, please log in or register.